Belly Laughs

I’m baaaccckkkkk!!!! I hope everyone had a terrific weekend because I know I sure did. It consisted of rest and relaxation (kinda).

Anyway I have a funny story to share and the reason for this blog post. So last week when I was starting this blog I got really mad at Shawn, my fiancé, I honestly don’t even remember what the fight was about, I’m a tad bit over dramatic. Well… when we were fighting I was laying in our spare bedroom trying to act all pissed off of coarse and here comes Shawn strolling into the bedroom trying to apologize and tell me he’s sorry. All of a sudden I just bust out laughing. I’m laughing so hard that I start to cry because I’m laughing so hard, Shawn asks me if I’m ok because he doesn’t know if I’m laughing or crying and all I could manage to say was both. We’re now both laughing so hard that when we finally get a hold of ourselves I look over at Shawn and say, “I can’t remember the last time I laughed that hard.” Now isn’t that just plain sad, we as humans get so caught up over money, jobs, kids, whatever, you name it, that we forget why we fell in love to begin with. It’s no wonder that divorce rate is so prevalent, we forget to laugh and enjoy moments like that with our spouse’s or significant others. Like most fights with spouses we get so caught up in the fact that we have to be “right” in an argument we forget to just enjoy each other.

From that tiny moment I realized I had let misery get the best of me and I wasn’t enjoying what life is supposed to offer. From that moment on I vowed to remember this situation, I’m only human so I’m sure I’ll fall short of it sometimes but I vow to stay in love with Shawn, that we will remember to slow down and have a belly laugh with each other, that we will remember to keep each other first priority, and that we will love each other unconditionally. Shawn and I this last weekend decided to do a few fun things in Lincoln that we haven’t done because we have been to “busy” to do.  Here are a few of those things…

Oh also Shawn and I on Saturday night decided to order a pizza and start a Harry Potter marathon, we only got through the first movie and fell asleep by 9:30 because we're old. Have a Happy Monday!!